December 3, 2012

I did manage to dress again last Saturday. Even though there was an event (serving a meal at a homeless Veteran's shelter) earlier in the day, I managed to get home in time to start preparations for going out. I stopped on the way home to buy Kiss press-on fingernails. I picked up a set, and decided to look at the eyelashes. While perusing the selection, a (very gay) male customer thought I needed help- he asked what I needed. I told him long lashes were what the wife asked for. He pointed out a few saying "this is long, so are those, and these too. I thanked him for his help, and when he left for the check-out counter, I chose something different!

Once home, the usual shower, shave (twice-old skin!), and face preparation began. The make-up went well, considering my lack of practice. I knew what I wanted to wear (they should still fit), so the outfit was easy. I stood in front of the full length mirror and chose the best of three wigs to match the make-up and clothes. It was almost 8:00pm, and nearly ready to leave! The skirt I chose was the wrong one and really needed a belt, and only one belt I owned would look right AND fit. I searched for almost 45 minutes without success, and got pissed off. I settled for a metal belt, and I needed to blouse the top out over the skirt so it looked OK. By this time it was almost ten, and I had planned to take photos of me applying the fingernails, but I was running out of time. I had just finished the task and had set up the camera, when the wife returned from her shopping (she usually stays away while I dress, waiting for me to leave). I had to move her carryout dinner from the living room so I could take pictures. I figured out how to use the broken camera without the display screen working, and snapped a few photos before leaving (make-up always looks better just after application). I grabbed a coat and scooted out the door. Time- 10:20pm.

I got to Gigi's about 10:45, delayed by an accident on M-39 that closed all but one lane. Found a spot to park, paid the attendant and went inside. Paid the cover for both floors, but only went to the main (upper) bar. I said hello to Christie and Jacqui, who I haven't seen since May, and bought myself a beverage. Also chatted with Janet (of Janet's Closet fame), Tracy, Leah, and long time girlfriend Ashley. Anton (AKA The Impaler) and Gary came in a little after I did, and we talked for quite awhile. Lots of good looking T*s were there. I missed seeing Jay Marie by about 15 minutes! I didn't dance, since the boot heels were 3" ( I've had very little practice), and the music was for $#!t. Around 1am, a fight broke out between Janet and some drunk guy, which was quickly broken up by the staff. The drunk got the worst of it. I flirted a bit, talked to two other T*'s, and finally left by 2am (before the moment of truth- does your make-up still cut it).

I arrived home about 2:20am, and uploaded the earlier pictures to my PC. I took a few more photos, and decided to find the two wigs I had tried on before I left home, to see how they would have looked. Couldn't find them!!! I spent almost one and a half hours without luck, and around 4:15am I gave up trying. In the process, I DID find the belt, though. I was in bed by 5am or so, still with the nails in place.

While I had an excellent time out, and I did enjoy the transformation, I was thoroughly disgusted by my inability to find what I was looking for. I WILL be organizing my clothing and such before my next dressing time. My schedule for the remainder of the year precludes my dressing, so I won't be out until sometime in January, 2012. I have told my wife NOT to schedule all my weekends next year!!!

Huggs and happy Holidays to All.
Lisa D.

Outing Update!

If something doesn't come up, I will be going out to Gigi's tonight, Dec. 3rd. This will be my last outing for this year. I hope to get out more regularly in 2012.

See you later tonight!
Huggs,

Lisa

November 12, out and about once again!

It seems my 'social secretary' had been doing a great job of scheduling my free weekend time since May, precluding my dressing and going out. Well, much to my wife's consternation, I finally got a chance to dress fully and go out on Saturday Nov. 12th, to Gigi's in Detroit.

I had planned to dress after finishing the boat cover Saturday afternoon, but since I did the work by myself, I was totally exhausted when I returned home after 5PM. The wife was just leaving for a fundraiser, and I wanted to wimp out. After about 1/2 hour of relaxing, I decided to take a shower, and see how I felt.

Feeling much more refreshed, I opted to dress at the very least. I shaved close just in case. It had been a long time since the last time, but the make-up routine went pretty well, considering. I wasn't in a big hurry (I didn't watch the clock), and thoroughly enjoyed the experience of transforming into 'Lisa' once again. Once my make-up was complete, I rummaged through my wardrobe for something that would fit AND look good. I also had to find a pair of flesh-colored tights that weren't too badly run (Danskin, which I haven't been able to find a replacement for). I wanted a short skirt, black tights and boots kind of look. The opaque black tights I chose covered the runs in the base pair of tights, but had a nasty habit of creeping down my backside! I also found a knit sweater I could pair with the pleated knit skirt I chose, but it was a bit small in the sleeve length, and the only top that wasn't in need of a wash. I pulled the boots on, grabbed a couple of wigs, and headed upstairs for a final critique in front of the full-length mirror. I selected the red and black shoulder length wig, brushed it in place, and went to find the fingernails.

I had forgotten to buy nails! The box I thought was full turned out to be used, with the larger nails already gone. I normally don't paint my own nails (too long to remove the polish completely), but I had no choice. I found some red nail polish that wasn't all dried up, and proceeded to polish my (very) short nails. I had to remove a lot of over-painting, but they would pass inspection in a dark bar. That complete, I grabbed my camera, placed on the tripod, and powered it up. The LCD display on the camera back was wacked! Just an irregular shaped black spot on a white background. I fooled around with it for what seemed like hours, but to no avail. It looked like there would be no photos of 'Lisa' that night! I gathered my purse, ID, ATM card and vehicle papers ( registration and proof of ins.), as well as cellphone, hairbrush, perfume and make-up repair kit, and headed out the door. It was 10:30pm...

I arrived at Gigi's in Detroit, and found the only open parking spot in the lot. Paid my fee to the attendant, and went inside. I paid the cover charge for both levels ( I didn't go to see the show), talked to Russ collecting the money, and continued to the main bar. I got a beverage, said hi to Dave and Tony behind the bar, saw Jaye Marie, Jennifer (who almost never goes to Gigi's), Chris, Marie and Cherie, Anton (aka The Impaler), Gary (out of drag) and a few others (whose names escape me). I talked with Jaye and Jennifer for a while, and then made my rounds. Angela came in, and I explained I couldn't take her (or any other) photos because of my defunct camera. She obliged me by taking two photos of me with her cellphone (which I haven't seen yet). I had given some thought of leaving early (it was 1:00am by this time) to visit my friend at her job at a str8 bar, but I hadn't talked with her for nearly 8 months, and wasn't sure she was still working there. The skirt I wore was hiked up above my waist to be short, but I could have pulled it down to the proper fit to be more respectable. I decided to stay at Gigi's.

At about 1:45, I decided I was getting too tired to stay any longer, so I packed up, said my good-byes and left. I did stop @ WC for a slider on the way. I arrived home around 2:15 am- the wife was asleep. I found her camera, changed memory cards, and placed it on the tripod. The self-timer had to be reset after each shot, so I didn't take too many photos. The neighborhood was quiet, so I took a couple of photos outside, including in the wife's car. At about 3:20am, I restored the camera to its original condition and placed back in her purse. I changed back, removed my make-up and headed to bed. I would remove the nail polish later Sunday.

Since I have been getting less and less chances to dress, I am enjoying the time I do spend dressing much more (like when I was 20). I would like to get out Nov. 26th, but a Hockey game may get in the way, so I'm also hoping I can get out on Dec. 3rd. We'll see what my 'secretary' has planned for me.

Huggs to all!
Lisa Dee

September update

As you may have noticed, I haven't posted any since May.

That is because I have had no time to devote to Lisa, with boating season and work obligations occupying most of my time. I'm planning to store my boat by Oct. 15th, relieving some burden.

If I can swing it, I may try for this weekend (9/24) to visit Gigi's. I won't know until Friday.

Lisa
PS The photo is an old one from the last century!!

going out. . .

Getting ready was becoming a matter of expediency, to get dressed and out for an evening. The less time in meant more time out. I rushed about, by habit. It looked like Saturday, April 30th was going to be a repeat. But during my shower, I remembered why I crossdressed.

Originally, it was the feeling of the clothes, nylons, bra, and panties on my skin I loved. Then the 'look' became important. Next was going out dressed, especially in public. Passing. Straight venues. Each step brought a new rush of adrenalin, adding to experience. I realized I had become a little jaded with my dressing habits, and the frequency of the opportunities. The older (and fatter) I get, the less I dress. I decided to savor every moment of each dress-up, starting tonight

The application of foundation, powder, blush, eye liner, shadow and especially the eye-lashes and mascara took on a more sensual feeling. I slowly slipped into panties and tights, smoothing all out. Bending over in a corset is almost impossible, so I slipped the white Leggs pantyhose up first the left, then right leg all the way to the waist. Then I hooked the corset closed, which took on a submissive thrill (and a lot of breath), and filling the cups with my padding amplified the sensation. The turtle neck was wiggled into, and the spandex jumper pulled taught over the top. Step in to a nylon slip , and pull it up my silky legs . Next, slowly slipping my stocking clad feet into one, then the other boot, and zipping them up slowly, I had to take a pause and slow down my breathing. Select a wig from 5 choices, admiring the differences each one gives, retrying each after the lipstick is generously applied. Perfume, touched in many places for enhancing sensuality. I had started at 6pm, and was done by 8:30pm. The fingernails were next. I was shaking with excitement as I selected the nails and pressed them in place. Looking in the full-length mirror, I nearly swooned.

Quickly I set up the camera and tripod, snapping about 16 photos in 15 minutes. Just as I was packed up and ready to walk out the wife returns home (gone all day). She has me wait until she is finished in the bathroom. She asks me if the slip hanging out was a new style, so I fixed the problem. I left about 9:45pm, stopping at an ATM for spending money.

Traffic was in disarray with construction projects forcing detours everywhere. I arrived after ten pm at Gigi's. The lot wasn't crowded, and not a lot of people upstairs, It looked like a batchelorette party was downstairs (confirmed following the second show). I acknowledged many hello's, including Jacki, Jaye Marie, Steve, Sherry, Shelly (I'm surprised), Angela (TS),and staff Russ, Dave and Tony. Tracy was there, but just leaving to do the Noir Leather Hellbound pin-up night in Detroit. Bought a beverage, sat, watched and chatted with some, while dancing a few songs. Angela and Angel arrived, as did the lovely Kiki. Re-met Jennifer, and thought I saw Michele(undiscovered) as well. When I noticed the time, I worked my way to the door to call my friend at the bar she works at. She said I would be too late to make it there by last call, so I told her I would try next time. She sounded disappointed, but wanted to see the photos next week.. I went back in for a blow-job (the DRINK, you ninny!), and to say good-bye to those I know still there. It was a long journey home.

I stopped at the estate house on my way home. My son was away for the weekend, and it made for a different background setting. I took a lot of photos, and a short video, before packing up and leaving around 3:45am. Got home, undressed, took off the make-up and went to bed. There was nothing sensual about this at 4:3o am! The adrenalin didn't wear off until then. I left the nails on...

I don't know when my next outing is, but I'll post when I do know.
Huggs!

Trying to keep up. . .

. . . with life.
I normally try to dress and go out every other weekend during the fall through April (when possible). Summers are out. I can't seem to get schedules to work as I once did.

I did get the chance to get out on April 9th, to Gigi's. Again my wife found a reason to be gone. I was surprised that the make-up went well. The skirt was guaranteed to fit, and the only choice was which top. I chose a cardigan I had worn once before with the same top and skirt, and looked good at that time. I had already chosen the red with black wig I bought from Han's in Redford (tried it on in drag) from the earlier incarnation of the outfit. At 9:30 I was applying my nails, took some photos, and left home by ten PM.

There was construction on M-39, but managed to miss any back-ups. Traffic was on the Northbound side as well. Arrived @ Gigi's about 10:30pm. Paid for both levels, headed upstairs. Bought a beverage, and visited with Sherry, Leah and Candice May (OMG!), Andy came around, as well as other admirers. I went downstairs, grabbed a seat at the bar. There were some beautiful girls there, and many were sitting next to me. Nickki Stevens was the M/C, as always, GREAT. I tipped the performers, and went back up to catch up with the dance floor. Only I missed my chance, as the prevalent music was more suited to 24 year olds (and wannabe's). I revisited with those still there. I had AGAIN planned to visit my lady friend at her place of employment, and again, I had an escort. I left to go that way (with Andy, as I was driving him home) by 1:20am. Tried to get on M-39 North, but all the entrances were closed. By the time we got back to the freeway, it was after 1:45, well after the last call at my LF's bar. I opted to finish dropping Andy off and going home.

The fog had really settled in, giving the experience of driving while dressed in eerie surroundings a very spooky feeling. I took the long way home, and passed a RR viaduct tunnel I had always wanted to be photographed in. I went home, picked up my tripod, and returned. No traffic, and since no one was around, I stopped just past the No Parking sign. Assembled the camera to the tripod, and walked to the tunnel's walkway. While I've been out in public dressed (and many during the daylight hours), this made me a little nervous, as it was only a few blocks from my home. I took a few photos with and without my sweater, in numerous poses. I forgot my own teachings and took some photos beyond the built-in flash range, and many didn't come out. I took about 20 shots, with 3 more outside on a concrete block (again, out of range). With a digital camera, dust, snow, rain and Fog all leave white dots in the photos (flash pix mostly). Back at home, I took more photos and a video. I was exhausted, and I called it quits. By the time I cleaned up (except for fingernails!) and got to bed it was 4:30am. Wife didn't wake, and I fell asleep almost immediately. I didn't remove the nails until 11am.

I wanted to go out last week, but Easter preempted my needs. I am planning to try Saturday, April 30th., to Gigi's, even though there's a Hellbound honoring Bette Page that night (I don't look like a pin-up any more). I would also like to do Luna in Royal Oak some Friday night, if I can find some girls or gurls to join me.

Huggs, and see you Saturday night!
Lisa D.

Oohhh, it felt good. . .

. . . to dress and get out again. I missed March 19th, mostly because I overslept after a big afternoon brunch. Waking up after 8:30pm precluded my dressing to go out. I told the wife I was on my way to shower, shave, and BTW, don't be surprised if I reappear in a dress.... She was less than enthusiastic, so to speak... so guess what?

I had another chance March 26th.
I had planned ahead, and I got started with preps around 6PM- shower, shave and make-up. I was extra careful on the shave, as I hadn't dressed fully in a while. Make-up went well, following a famous movie queen's recommendations for eye lashes and make-up, and some observations I've made over the last few months or so. I put on an outfit planned some months ago, but hadn't had time to try on. While the outfit (brown corduroy jumper, white oxford blouse) was comfortable last year, it seemed somewhat tight now (too much beer?).

I was going out regardless.

I was ready, including nails by 9:30pm. I took a few timer photos (wife was out at the time), and was on my way.

I reached Gigi's by 10:30pm, parked, checked my coat and paid for both levels. Bought a beverage, danced( a LOT), and chatted with a few old friends. I was sorry Jaye Marie didn't make it for me to wish her a "22nd. birthday" for the twentieth time. I talked at length with (the Classic Beauty) Tracy, Leah, Andy, Chris, Megan and the foxxy Mistress X. I saw Sherry (g), Brandy, Kikki, Jacki and Chrissy, and a few others that I can't remember their names (getting old is HELL). I had planned to leave about 1:30am to visit a friend at a str8 bar (with an escort no less). I called her bar, and she had apparently left early (I guess she didn't think I'd show up). I stayed until last call, and left about 2am. I tried to pick-up a snack (@ W.C.) on the way home, but after 2am there is NO fast food around here.

I got home about 2:45am, and made some preparations for photos. 100 photos (and a video) later, I grew tired, so I transferred the images to my PC. Then I removed clothing, wig, make-up and got ready for bed, about 4:45am. I kept the Kiss Press-on Nails in place until after I woke later Sunday morning. The wife woke and asked if I had a good time...

FOLKS: Any time I dress, and especially when I get out, I have a 'good' time!

I want to get out again April 9th., barring schedule conflicts (which usually occurs).
More photos from this night are being added to my Flickr account shortly.

Huggs to all,
Lisa D.

Next outing March 19?

I have approval AND an outfit (that fits) for going out Sat. night. I'm planning on going to Gigi's in Detroit, around 10 PM.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed. . .

Lisa D.

Always Something!

I was planning to attend the Noir Leather Hellbound Fetish event tonight (2/26/11), but I discovered that I couldn't fit into ANY of my fetish clothing. Add to that the snow which started falling, and I opted not to buy a ticket and go. I'm planning to get real with my diet and beer consumption, starting this week.

The last time I went out was Saturday,Feb. 12th, to Gigi's. The wife went out to do shopping, so I started the preparations early. I bought fingernails, headed home, took a shower and began the make-up process about 6PM. I was done in about an hour and a half (with the make-up, that is). It took me longer to find an outfit that I could fit into without looking like a cow! My black knit sweater dress was clean, and I opted to wear that (the dress is over 25 years old). I then had to choose footwear and wig- and decided on black hi-heeled boots and my longer red /black one from Han Beauty Supply in Redford. I was ready about 9:30pm, and needed to clean a couple of places to take photos. I took a few photos before leaving (make-up always looks best right after application), which was about 10:00pm.

I arrived @ Gigi's around 10:20pm, was given my choice of parking spots by the Attendant, paid my cover charge ($5 up & downstairs) and checked my coat. Russ was taking the fees this time (a real sweetheart). I went in, saw a lot of my friends in attendance, and bought a beverage before finding a place to sit down. I talked to Jaye Marie, Christie, Jackie, Leah, and Shari (formerly Debbie) who just lost her wife to illness. I also talked to Angela and Tarah, and took both of their photos (Angela is such a camera whore). I also talked to Chris and Andy, and met a out of towner TG named Joan. Joan was a lot of fun to talk to, my age, and a real nice person. I look forward to her next visit! Also present were Mandy, Michelle, Kiki, and Marcy. I was introduced to a CD who, it turned out, was trolling for cocksuckers. Once she tried to get into my bathroom stall, which I prevented, she left me alone (looking for others, I saw). They played my kind of music later than usual, so I danced more than usual. The bartenders (Dave and Tony) were wonderful as always!

I stayed around until about 1:45am, and had Andy take a couple of photos before I left. I drove Andy (AKA The Impaler) home (we've known each other for many years) on my way home. I skipped a food stop at 2AM, and started taking photos immediately on arrival. I finished up about 3:20am, and changed back to male drab. I was in bed by 3:45am.

I wish I could have made the Hellbound tonight, but there will be another one sometime before the summer and boating season.

Lisa D.